Virgins are the latest reality TV nerves. Their reasons for abstinence are complex

Author and screenwriter Sai Marie Johnson written Being voluntarily strengthened since 2020. WIRED told that the decision came after marriage, gave birth to children, and suffers from toxic relationships with men. She and her and IDA define it as a positive sex, which means that they do not look at sex as shameful, but they are concerned about how men have sex and relationships against them.

Johnson says: “Our climate has now allowed the evaluation of their practice of hate women,” says Johnson. Reproductive coercion (Men’s ability to control the reproductive decisions of women) by inability to reach abortion as a major reason that women turn into voluntary celibacy. “The province is trying to strengthen a more sporty society after we did all this to push sexual positivity over the past decade.”

“I think it is also a matter of mothers like me, who have gone through these things, going to our daughters and going,“ Look, that is what my mother did not teach me, ”Johnson continues, adding that her 23 -year -old daughter is a virgin.” You do not have to be the wife of Puritan Trad. You can only be on Fans if this is what you want. The problem is that men automatically assume that every one opportunity to communicate with a woman means she will have sex. “

But it seems that the opposite is also true.

As contestants on Are you the first? Explore some of these dynamics with each other, it becomes clear that some men are not comfortable with women, even when women are excited. At the first night, Rachel, a woman with vaginal spasm, explains that she is interested in Michael, a stand -up comedian, interested. It is similar – but it reveals in confession that he is still working with a fear of intimate relationship.

Ironically, people like Michael who are afraid of sex are now encouraged to work through this fear publicly, on television, in the social experiences that are very manipulated. This contradiction may be another fundamental reason for what the Mediterranean GEN Zers offer- a push to share more of themselves with the Internet on how to share them less physically.

Magdalin Taylor says, Sexual culture And editor in Playboy. “I think many young people are trading these usual signs of adulthood for a more digital life. We have less personal social reactions, and sex is a natural part of that.”

After IDA’s Tiktoks exploded about virginity, it was published about DM’s reception from a person involved in reality TV production. She says she cannot share the details, but on Sunday, the previous day Are you the first? Eda, who was first shown, says she participated in filming a pilot episode. She adds that the new series is not a competition. It will provide more personal context on her journey.

Eda says: “My mother, literally every week, calls me, says:” Have you finished embarrassing yourself on the Internet? “With Tiktok and Really TV, if you have the opportunity to talk about your sexual life or her, then you will be the reason that you have a profession, so why not do that?”