“Not raising children in hatred, noise …”: The viral exit of NRi from India is published in the discussion

Personal social media participation was deeply led by Rajeshwari Iyer, NRi, who returned from the United States with dreams of rebuilding her life in her homeland, to large -scale online talks. In an explicit post on X (formerly Twitter), Iyer recounted its journey to India – and its decision eventually to leave again, this time “clarity” and a sense of peace.

“I used to find it funny when people said:” The ultimate goal of every Indian is to leave India. “A few years ago, I left the United States and promised to be hoping and a sense of duty.” “But the terrestrial reality was different. People defend bad decisions blindly. Renewing high taxes, no advantage, and unwanted corruption. I felt as if a society rooted its own collapse.”

Iyer revealed frustration and frustration, and revealed that it chose to return abroad, saying: “India will always be in my heart. But I refuse to raise my children in an environment of hatred, noise and deliberate ignorance.”

Since then, this position has become viral, which has led to a chord with many of those who walked in a similar way – returning to India with idealism only to face them as systemic deficiencies and social stagnation.

One of the commentators answered sympathy: “Return with hope, just to be met by indifference or resistance, it can be tragic … but for some of us, India is not just geographically or politics – it is a personality … the change here is not quick or easy, but perhaps this is the reason why some of us choose to stay – not because we still believe it is possible.”

Another user echoed IYER, participating, “I went through the same stage two years ago – I left Canada and promised with hope … broken systems, daily chaos, and a complete lack of the basic civil meaning – makes survival itself as a conflict.”

However, not all responses were dark. A third user commented with hope:
“India is not perfect, but I hope this reality will change one day, and when they return your children India, they find it better.”

The discussion sparked broader discussions on brain migration, national responsibility, and emotionality of the diaspora Indians trying to “reverse transition” – only to face a complex mix of bureaucracy, cultural hardness, and broken infrastructure.