Jin will open a sexual shame that affects her marriage

Just Hatem maker She is considering how a culture of purity affects her marriage Former husband Brandon.

It appears in a modern episode of podcast, “Jimmy Kern Lima show,“HGTV has opened about how she brought” sexual disgrace “that has evolved at an early age to her marriage to Brandon, 53.

Jin, 51, recalled a teenager story when her church “sexual education” taught her using a flower metaphor. She explained that she and the other girls were told that they are like a flower – a “pure” and “primitive” gift to be granted to their husbands only. They were warned that activities such as sexual intercourse with their friends or allowing people to touch their bodies before marriage will lead to the “destruction” of the gift, such as a pet that a flower hill.

“This was the first time in my life that I told a spiritual authority that I was a real problem, and that my body was a problem, and that I was only responsible for the purity of nationalities, but the children and any sexual deviation that entered, if so, I am still talking about it.”

Jin added that learning to think about this way of sexual desires early in life returned to chase her when she got married in the end.

She said: “This story was handed over to many of us in our time, at such a pivotal time, and I bore this sexual shame with me in my marriage. Certainly.”

Jane added that she was married to young men and “they already received the story”, which means that none of them saved themselves to marry as if they were taught.

She said: “Therefore, we have already entered our relationship full of guilt, full of shame, full of secrets, because this is not something that we allowed to talk about or to be honest about it.” “And so you just buried this internally, and it is very eroded.”

Jin also pointed to the damage caused by informing her of a long -term sexual desires, but after that he expects after marriage to be suddenly skilled in the bedroom to be able to satisfy your husband.

“It is certain that it affected our marriage when you are repeatedly, repeatedly and repeated those sexual feelings, desires, behaviors and exploration, and all of them are very dirty and that you are dirty for their existence, to think about them or to do it, you only believe that,” Jin continued.

She added: “Thus, I walked this feeling of this struggle in my marriage, because, of course, in this camp, then I also told” Do not be my selti and have sex. “But when you get married in the end, be great.

Jin and Brandon’s relationship was presented Renewal of my big familyThat was first offered in 2014. The couple later Declare In 2020, nearly three decades of marriage.

Jin wrote via Instagram at the time: “And Brandon has launched the absolute and I launched. Although the details are alone, this was not completely expected, and I remain stunned while we were talking. I was shocked, disturbed by sadness, and a heart break,” Jin wrote on Instagram at the time. “We have been dwelling a lot on your hearts. We have felt your prayers in the past few weeks. We have passed with your mercy. Thank you for being good for us. I know that we are surrounded by love and we are not alone in two months. Please help protect us and keep us safe and try to heal and build.”

Brandon and Jin moved after their divorce. Brandon is now married Tina HatmackerWhile Jin found love with her boyfriend Tyler Meret.